Divorce, Prenups, Daddy Issues & Healing: Real Talk with My Girls Martha, Vita, Isabela, and Camila

In this special “Miami Besties” episode of Not Alone, Valeria brings together the most memorable, honest, and vulnerable moments from her conversations with the women closest to her.

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In this special “Miami Besties” episode of Not Alone, Valeria brings together the most memorable, honest, and vulnerable moments from her conversations with the women closest to her. The episode begins with friend Vita Sidorkina, whose conversation dives into raising resilient kids, the value of honesty with children, and the Russian cultural principles she still carries. Plus, an open conversation about how “daddy issues” can shape who we choose to marry and life with a husband who is 20 years older. Next, Isabela Grutman reflects on what marrying young taught her, navigating the early modeling world, and the reality of “high-value” men. We also get into long-term partnerships, and what it means to renegotiate your marriage as you evolve. Then, Martha Graeff opens up about her first marriage, the courage it took to prioritize her mental health, and the financial realities of leaving, including why she believes prenups are empowering, not limiting. Finally, Camila Coelho shares her deeply personal experience growing up with epilepsy, from getting diagnosed as a child to managing her condition as an adult, and the stigma that still surrounds it. 

Together, these conversations reveal the raw, real, and resilient sides of womanhood, friendship,and the stories that shape us.

Follow all these women on Social Media:

Vita

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vitasidorkina/?hl=en

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vitasidorkina?lang=en

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@VitaSidorkinachannel

Isabela

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isabelagrutman/?hl=en

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@isabelagrutman?lang=en

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7F7lPus82h-g9YrASzIXRg

Martha

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marthagraeff/?hl=en

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marthagraeff?lang=en

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/marthagraeff

Camila

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/camilacoelho/?hl=en

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@camilacoelho?lang=en

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDl9AK32Xzr_2UOxjt03f6w

 

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What we talked about: 

0:26 - Setting up the “Miami Besties” Episode

1:53 - Introducing friend Vita Sidorkina 

3:22 - Start of Vita 

3:26 - Bringing back honest communication with children

5:09 - People being too soft

7:28 - Russian values Vita holds on to

9:50 - Not growing up with childhood trauma

11:15 - Daddy issues & marital age-gaps

15:21 - Introducing friend Isabela Grutman

16:22 - Start of Isabela 

16:26 - Wasting people’s time

18:06 - Marrying young vs. later in life

21:47 - Modeling at a young age

22:57 - Women looking for high-value men

23:53 - Lessons from marriage

25:15 - Not taking everything personally

26:18 - Renegotiating the marriage terms

30:01 - Introducing friend Martha Graeff

31:07 - Start of Martha 

31:28 - Early days with her ex-husband

33:35 - Prioritizing mental health

35:16 - Financial aspect of leaving your marriage

36:09 - Importance of a prenup 

38:25 - Introducing friend Camila Coehlo

39:41 - Start of Camila 

40:19 - Getting diagnosed with epilepsy as a child

44:00 - Managing her type of epilepsy

45:55 - The stigma around epilepsy

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ABOUT THE GUESTS

Vita Sidorkina

Vita Sidorkina is a model, content creator, and entrepreneur with over 17 years in the fashion industry. After walking for top brands, including Victoria’s Secret, she has transitioned into new creative ventures. She recently launched her first capsule shoe collection with VICSON, blending timeless design with comfort. Passionate about wellness and fashion, Vita shares insights to help women not only look good but feel good, too. Beyond fashion, she is a devoted mother of two and an advocate for giving back. She recently joined the board of the Miami Children’s Museum, where she is excited to support and contribute to the local community.

Isabela Grutman

Isabela Rangel Grutman is a Brazilian-born model, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and influential figure in the world of fashion and lifestyle. Known for her effortless style and captivating presence, she has graced campaigns for high-profile brands and appeared in renowned fashion editorials. She is the founder of Rangel, a sustainable clothing brand focused on timeless, eco-conscious designs, and Isa Grutman Jewelry, a fine jewelry line offering exquisite pieces crafted from natural diamonds and gemstones. Additionally, she is a partner at IGK, a renowned salon brand. Beyond her entrepreneurial ventures, Isabela is deeply committed to philanthropy. She serves as the Vice President of Style Saves, a Miami-based nonprofit organization that merges fashion with philanthropy to support underprivileged students and their families. Balancing her roles as a mother, entrepreneur, and advocate, Isabela remains dedicated to inspiring those around her.

Martha Graeff

Martha Graeff is a Brazilian-born entrepreneur, influencer, model, and wellness enthusiast who has dedicated her career to promoting a healthy, joyful approach to aging. After years of being a fashion model, Graeff's interests began to evolve, and she shifted her focus from fashion to wellness. This journey ultimately led her to found Happy Aging, a brand that combines her expertise in lifestyle and beauty with a fresh perspective on aging. Recognizing a gap in the wellness market for effective, accessible products aimed at aging gracefully, Graeff set out to develop solutions with Co-Founder Dr. Daniel Yadegar, that could make a meaningful impact. Founded by Martha in 2018, The Bazaar for Good is a philanthropic event that brings influential women together to raise funds for pediatric hospitals, schools and life-changing programs for vulnerable children.

Camila Coelho

Camila Coelho is a Brazilian-American fashion and beauty entrepreneur, global influencer, and founder of the lifestyle brand Elaluz and the fashion label Camila Coelho Collection. Known for her signature glamour and uplifting energy, Camila built one of the most influential digital platforms in beauty and fashion, inspiring millions with her style, vulnerability, and resilience. She is also a passionate advocate for epilepsy awareness, using her story to break stigma and empower others living with chronic health conditions. Through her businesses, content, and advocacy, Camila continues to redefine what it means to lead with authenticity, creativity, and purpose.

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