In this episode, Valeria sits down with Stassi Schroeder for a conversation that’s equal parts hilarious, honest, and unexpectedly deep.
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In this episode, Valeria sits down with Stassi Schroeder for a conversation that’s equal parts hilarious, honest, and unexpectedly deep. They talk about Stassi’s early experiences in the spotlight and what it feels like to return to reality TV with Vanderpump Villa after years of personal growth. She opens up about the emotional toll of growing up on camera, how motherhood has changed her, and why she’s giving more attention to what matters most now.
Stassi shares how writing her latest book helped her rethink ambition, identity, and the myth of balance. She also reveals her decade-long struggle with self-harm and what helped her finally stop. The two dive into joy as a healing practice, the emotional cost of perfectionism, and why fashion is still one of Stassi’s favorite forms of self-expression (just don’t expect her to wear neon or crop tops). They also get into motherhood, mental health, alone time as a survival tool, and even egg-based spiritual cleansing.
This is a layered look at what it really means to evolve, how to stay grounded in chaos, and how to laugh at yourself along the way.
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Mentioned:
Vanderpump Villa on Hulu: https://www.hulu.com/series/vanderpump-villa-bf42f6f5-db26-4429-85e0-17e86d161c98
Stassi Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5vYFtK213TmWUvTVynh0IL
You Can't Have It All: The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off by Stassi Schroeder: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1668049929
What we talked about:
00:31 Hair and Makeup Talk
01:45 Nail Care and Personal Preferences
02:39 Vanderpump and Personal Evolution
06:46 Writing and Vulnerability
07:39 Balancing Life and Work
10:42 Joy and Self-Improvement
16:47 Mental Health and Self-Care
38:05 Reflecting on Self-Harm
39:07 The Catalyst for Change
40:02 Finding Coping Mechanisms
40:31 A Turning Point in the Relationship
45:26 The Importance of Alone Time
46:37 Fashion and Style Evolution
01:00:35 Navigating Motherhood and Identity
01:03:07 Balancing Work and Personal Life
01:07:26 Dealing with Jealousy and Social Media
01:11:35 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans
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Stassi Schroeder Clark is a three-time New York Times bestselling author, television personality, and host of the popular podcast Stassi. She is also the co-host of the fan-favorite family podcast The Good The Bad The Baby. Stassi’s podcast has captivated audiences for ten years, remaining one of the highest-rated across platforms. In 2019, she was one of the first talents to evolve her podcast into a live show with the Straight Up with Stassi Live tour, which sold out shows across the U.S. in minutes. The success of these live shows led to the Bougie Bus Tour in 2020 and the Mommy Dearest Tour in 2023, both of which included sold-out markets. Stassi’s first book, Next Level Basic (2019), became a New York Times Bestseller and reached #1 on The Wall Street Journal Bestsellers List. Her second book, Off With My Head (2022), and third book, You Can’t Have It All (2024), were also instant New York Times Best Sellers. Up next, Stassi will be making her return to reality TV with Hulu, developing her own half-hour docu-comedy series titled Stassi Says, and joining the second season of Vanderpump Villa. Stassi lives in Los Angeles with her husband, Beau Clark, and their two kids.
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