In this week’s very special 100th episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down for a powerful and deeply honest conversation with writer and creator, Heidi Clements.
In this week’s very special 100th episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down for a powerful and deeply honest conversation with writer and creator, Heidi Clements. Known for her unfiltered storytelling and viral presence online, Heidi opens up about aging, sobriety, 25 years without sex, surviving trauma, and what it means to live life on her own terms. The two explore the emotional realities behind choosing a nontraditional path, including living single, redefining intimacy, and navigating the invisibility many women feel after 50. They discuss how society conditions women to seek validation, how the male gaze has shaped generations, and why self-approval is the ultimate freedom. With humor, heart, and vulnerability, this episode is a candid look at healing, wholeness, and the courage to tell your story out loud.
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What we talked about:
00:00 Not Alone’s 100th Episode!
00:14 The Humbling Journey of Podcasting
01:38 Overcoming Perfectionism and COVID Challenges
02:28 The Birth of 'Not Alone'
02:58 Finding My Groove in Podcasting
04:07 Introducing Heidi Clements
06:12 Heidi's Journey to Internet Fame
07:43 Navigating Social Media and Personal Growth
13:11 The Impact of Sobriety and Personal Trauma
16:06 Empowering Women and Challenging the Patriarchy
20:07 Generational Shifts and Future Hopes
36:00 Gen X and Menopause: A New Conversation
37:02 Cultural Silence and Women's Health
38:52 Living Shamelessly and Embracing Authenticity
41:57 Intimacy and Sobriety: A Personal Journey
45:43 Redefining Intimacy and Relationships
52:47 The Evolution of Self-Love and Acceptance
01:01:47 Visibility and Aging: Embracing Change
01:05:07 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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Heidi Clements (64) wants to change the way the country looks at women over 50. A former tv writer turned social media creator, Heidi uses fashion and storytelling to help reframe the way people look at aging. Heidi has worked in both magazine news and entertainment news running shows like Entertainment Tonight, before moving into scripted television at 51. After producing 100 episodes of the Freeform’s Baby Daddy, Heidi decided to shift her script focus and now only writes about women over 50. Heidi is now focused on turning her social media into a business and spreading the word about pro-aging, anti-alcohol and general ideas about life, love, the pursuit of happiness and crushing the patriarchy.
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