Why You're Still Single: Tinx Reveals How to Master Modern Dating

In this episode, Tinx and Valeria dive deep into the nuances of modern dating, exploring everything from social media's impact on relationships to balancing financial dynamics.

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In this episode, Tinx and Valeria dive deep into the nuances of modern dating, exploring everything from social media's impact on relationships to balancing financial dynamics. Tinx shares her candid thoughts on gender roles and expectations, while both hosts discuss personal growth and the importance of self-love in the quest for meaningful connections. This episode is packed with humor, vulnerability, and insightful discussions that challenge conventional dating norms.

Tinx, also known as Christina Najjar, is a social media sensation known for her candid and humorous take on life, love, and everything in between. Tinx brings a unique and relatable perspective to her content, which resonates with a vast audience of young adults who have deemed her “TikTok’s Big Sister”. She is an advocate for self-worth and empowerment, often discussing topics related to dating and personal development.

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What We Talked About:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:30 Dating Apps and Millennial Struggles
  • 05:40 When Dating, Know Your Worth
  • 06:32 Shera Seven, the ‘Sprinkle Sprinkle’ Lady
  • 11:50 The Loneliness Epidemic of Men
  • 18:11 Red Flags vs Icks
  • 20:03 Go Out With a Friend
  • 21:21 Do You Flirt?
  • 24:36 Don’t Worry About Finding Love
  • 26:10 Making a Man Monetarily Inadequate
  • 28:09 He Has to Love You More
  • 29:39 The Black Cat vs The Golden Retriever
  • 26:49 The Golden Cage, Marrying for Money
  • 27:35 Financial Inequality in Relationships
  • 29:58 Men and Women Are Valued Differently
  • 31:42 The Rise of Tradwife
  • 35:15 Phone Addiction 
  • 37:49 Romantic Love Theory
  • 41:27 Lessons to Bring Into Your Next Relationship
  • 45:01 Daddy Energy in Women
  • 45:32 Answering Questions from Followers
  • 57:02 Who Pays on a Date?




Christina Najjar, popularly known as Tinx, is a digital creator, advice expert, podcast host and New York Times best-selling author. Tinx’s wit and candor have established her as a resounding voice for women, with her uniquely engaging and empathetic approach to content resonating with millions. From her satirical “Rich Mom” content and takes on pop culture, to her theories on sex, dating and relationships, and her honest reviews and recommendations of everything from food and restaurants to beauty, fashion and lifestyle products, Tinx possesses an effortless ability to capture the cultural zeitgeist. Tinx has developed a devoted fanbase of those who come for her expert advice, often given with her famous mini mic in hand, and to have a great laugh at the same time. In 2022, Tinx launched her podcast and live call-in radio show with SiriusXM, It’s Me Tinx, sharing everything her followers have come to know and love about her content while offering an intimate glimpse into her life. In May 2023, Tinx released her New York Times best-selling book, The Shift: Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself, a guide to a new way of thinking about life, love, happiness, and friendships. Tinx’s undeniable impact on social media earned her the distinction as one of Forbes’ Top Creators 2022. Born in Washington D.C. and raised in London, Tinx currently resides in Los Angeles.


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